Brighten N'Ach Virus Family Life By: ARDA DINATA Islamic teachings require the parents to educate their children. If not, according to Prof. Dr. Bayhaqi Ak, not only with the threat of criminal punishment of sinners in the afterlife, but also threatened to not get moral and material rights of the child. What a miserable loss and the journey of life, if it actually happens to us. Naudzubillah. So this picture, must be absolutely anyone aware of the importance of a education for the children. And a clear element of our perseverance in order to empower the child is educated conduct to use ruqyah building the pillars of the establishment of a family sakinah order.
To realize this, seems to borrow a phrase from David McClelland, every family should have a virus N'Ach (short for Need for Achievement, need for achievement -), and capable of spreading to the entire family. And the most important of the existence of this virus is N'Ach should be coupled with the power of immunity good conscience. Namely through a series of Islamic education.
In another sense, this N'Ach virus was not the sole cause of man achievement. This virus is only one of its main elements. Separately N'Ach a good trait, but not necessarily motivate a person to carry out activities that benefit the community. If this is not followed by a good conscience had.
In every human being, is the potential presence of this virus has been N'Ach had since birth. Because no, man was created in the form of the best. The problem, is whether all human beings since the beginning has been trained to use / actualize the emergence of the virus?
Therefore, efforts to know whether or not the appearance of "mental virus" that can only be known in a sample of someone's mind. Namely whether the thought has to do with "doing something good" or "do something with a better way" than had ever done before. For example, more efficient, faster, with less power, with better results, and the like.
Such action should be before we evaluasikan against children, the first self-made to his parents. The reason, parents who have the virus and N'Ach a good conscience, then he will pass it to her children. Parents like this, was the personification of a moral achiever.
Type achiever's parents are very confident but not arrogant, and very friendly. In terms of developing self-discipline and skills, parents achiever build from within. Group of parents like this, able to work mempertanggung responsibility. Personal input is always trying to find for himself and watched other people's opinions. And he was able to capture the positive values that appear and he gave useful input, so that the impact of good influence to people around him (read: children).
In another language, parents can say this achiever of behavior and attitude will reflect itself as part of the problem solver; looking at something complex into simple; able to motivate; the obstacles into opportunities; something difficult, but possible; and recover from any failure .
Step Education
Preparation is something that is prepared from the beginning, after we determine something desire. Similarly, the desire to transmit the virus and build (potential) N'Ach to the child, then we first need the preparation of Islamic education in that direction.
The results of this education will achieve good results, according to Bayhaqi, is if the parent meets the conditions, such as duty to God, sincere and noble.
As for the steps that Islamic education should be made to maximize these goals, then they must be prepared from choosing a wife / husband, the time the ceremony, when the husband-wife "associate", when his wife pregnant / pregnancy, time after giving birth.
In doing mate choice, the Prophet Muhammed., Recommends that we choose a wife / husband who is religious and noble. It is intended that after establishing households, so they can nurture and build family lives and educate their children into a religious state and noble.
The next educational step is when to hold the ceremony. Ie before the final offer and qabul, the couple is reminded of the Islamic faith (read: with pronunciation again kalimah Creed). Connected later with the sermon of marriage and say ijab qabul.
Other educational process, is to perform the prayer at the time the couple will "hang out". And if we look at, it contains the contents of the prayer intention is not merely a request, but in it contains the meaning that makes the soul becomes calm and, more important is the hope of children who may be born from the "hang out" is far from the distractions of the devil.
As for education at the time pregnant (pregnancy) done (mainly) by the mother to try to improve service and affection between husband and wife. This is based on that baby in the womb is very responsive / sensitive to stimuli from outside (read: of happiness, kesediahan, peace of mind, etc..). Furthermore, after the child is born, then do the read / heard lafaz azan and iqomah. Then aqiqah slaughtering and gave a good name. Further education is for the provision of (educational) modeling of both parents in all aspects of life until the child becomes an adult and independent.
Finally, by applying these steps, God willing, will result in families that can propel the spread of the virus emerged and N'Ach and good conscience in family life. And ultimately the family will be both enlightened life in the world and in akherat later. Waallahu'alam .***
Arda Dinata Inspiration is the founder of the Qur'an and the Assembly Natural Reality (MIQRA) Indonesia, http://www.miqra.blogspot.com.
The virus Indonesia N'Ach Savior By: ARDA DINATA http://ardaiq.blogspot.com The Indonesian people are really sorry. Despite abundant natural wealth, but the condition still dikukung people with various problems of life. The existence of this problem, actually is a fairness in life. Here, the point of the problem lies in our attitude in dealing with each problem.
In recent years, the public reaction to rising fuel prices (fuel), electricity basic tariff (TDL) and the phone rates continue. So that each circle, should be able to react with a clean heart, to save the nation of Indonesia.
Key safety of this nation, located on the shoulders of the residents of the nation itself. In looking at the condition of the nation today's slump, it seems there is something that has not owned by some component of Indonesian society. Namely the presence of virus in the body N'Ach Indonesian society, including national leaders.
N'Ach virus is a virus that does not harm humans, but instead he is a "savior" kekhalifahannya existence on earth. N'Ach virus is an extension of the Need for Achievement. Ie virus basic needs for every human achievement.
If the community and leaders of this country have N'Ach virus, of any model keperpurukan will disikapinya wisely and correctly. For that, each of us must learn from the model viris N'Ach. The presence of this virus, the human condition will be able to always in a state of creative. The impact was incredible, the human model is capable of thinking correctly (read: thinking with the left and right brain).
The success of the spread of this virus N'Ach, at least never proven brilliantly by Dr. David McClelland in Kakinada, India. Meanwhile, as quoted Supardi (2001), economic growth in America at some particular period was also directly related to the circulation of the books "stimulating achievement." The less a piece of time to produce a book that N'Ach virus, decreasing the level of economic growth (read: Achieving Society, David McClelland).
Further disclosed, these observations are then translated into a model "performance incentives," practiced in Kakinada, India. David divides a group of people who "backward" into two demplot. Through "N'Ach virus" which is designed in such a way, David managed to prove that the group "divirus," later, it managed to show an increase of the spectacular growth compared with the "left" is not divirus N'Ach. This means, to develop "performance group" is very possible.
Thus, for the Indonesian nation is giving N'Ach virus is something that must be provided, constructed and developed. People who have been given this N'Ach virus, in other words is called as an achiever.
Feature achiever
Behavior and attitude of an achiever that will reflect itself as part of the problem solver; looking at something complex into simple; able to motivate; the obstacles into opportunities; something is difficult, but possible; and rise from every failure.
To achieve an achiever personal need for a very long process and patience. At least, there are ten characteristics of this individual achiever. That is, first, self-confident. These characteristics need is owned by an achiever. How he will be judged and judge others, if he himself did not believe in the ability of Allah given to him. The existence of this self-distrust, it can hamper a person's success. How can any self-confidence that we have it, we need to acknowledge and maintain because its value very expensive.
Second, the courage to take risks. Any action that contains risk. But, the problem is sometimes we do not take into account the long-term effects that will happen. An achiever, he was able and willing to take the risk of any actions. That is, based with a mature mind and has been considered the positive and negative effects and long thinking.
Third, like ambiquitas (double). Ambiquitas here, not that he was wishy-washy. But this ambiguous concept, means he does not just think one way to achieve the vision and desire that has been etched in his soul. He tried to solve any problems and achieve goals that will accomplish. In his mind, there are no words fail, hard, can not, not possible, etc.. This attitude, teaches us to always face the future optimistically.
Fourth, a strong work ethic. We must always learn from the experiences of others. We see, how the people of Singapore so advanced and "rich", but not as rich as its natural resources the country Indonesia. Key point, he has a strong work ethic. Singapore People have principles, "Singapore is my country, but the world is the Market." On this basis, Singapore although a small country, but he includes rich countries. He was not thinking about territorial boundaries again to market their works. The question, like it or not we follow the nation of Singapore?
Fifth, intuitive vision. If we want to be an achiever, so this requirement should have been there in his thinking. Horizons and mindset we have been trained to think far ahead. How and what will be done by our one-year or five years into the future.
Sixth, there is a strong desire to be skilled (ritualiting constant). This skill is one of the requirements to become a professional. An achiever must always try to be skilled. Skilled in here, of course linked to the field of business or going and what we're involved with right now. Is not, only people who able and profesionallah who will be able to seize opportunities in today's era of globalization.
Seventh, to apply the principles of social (human relations). The late Commander General Sudirman, once advised, "If we want to win, then arrange them strength. The key strength is the unity and oneness. Step achieve unity and integrity, nothing else we have to spread wings or Hospitality ukhuwah fellow human beings. "The meaning of these messages, of course we need to invest in the heart, because it was so incredible strength in achieving success. Thus, the essence of victory is ukhuwah, Hospitality, human relations human beings.
Eighth, be positive (positive Thingking). Think positive, it means stop blaming others and always introspective. In addition, we also should try to eliminate demand characteristics, comparing and complaining to myself and others. More than that, those who think this positive attitude will show the courage to take lessons from each event.
Ninth, to think big (back Thingking). If we want to be a "big," then at least the first of which is from now is we have to act like big men (read: successful people). Similarly, if we want to succeed, then our attitude should be modeled after what is done by successful people are.
Tenth, enthusiastic. An achiever is the people who have high enthusiasm in realizing his ideals. So as to achieve enthusiastic behavior, then we should always act enthusiastic and God willing you will be enthusiastic. The next step is your job gumuli it, learn, tekuni, live, get lots of information and eventually you will subconsciously become enthusiastic.
Finally, the government must be clever-clever N'Ach spread the virus to the community, and instead of spreading the "virus misery" of wisdom that really does not side with the people. Wallahu'alam .***
Arda Dinata Inspiration is the founder of the Qur'an and the Assembly Natural Reality (MIQRA) Indonesia, http://www.miqra.blogspot.com.
Alms will reverberate By: ARDA DINATA http://ardaiq.blogspot.com In the hadith narrated by Muslim from Abu Harairah mentioned ra that the Prophet said, "There was this guy was in an arid area, then he heard a voice in the clouds, 'So and so Siramilah the garden." Cloud came and rain water in the shower where the water (dam). Only one trench that can accommodate all of the water, then water was flowing into a field.
In the field there was a man who was pouring water with a hoe.
Said the man (the first), 'O servant of God, who is your name? "
He replied, 'So and so, why do you ask my name? "
He replied, 'I heard a voice in the cloud that this water flow, said:' So and so Siramilah the field, 'just like yours. What you do on this farm? "
He replied, 'If it is true what you say, actually I use the results of this field, I sedekahkan third, third I eat with my family and I return the third longer again to the fields (for the cost of plants). "
The story has taught us that the charity would be reciprocated out in the world though, so we should treat it fairly alms from what is our business. Charity means charity to the poor, people in need, etc. (based on love for fellow human beings). There are also those among us who call it a shodaqoh charity. In the book of at-Ta'rifat: 132 works of Al-Jarjaniy, each shodaqoh is issued (done) by someone with the hope of getting the pleasure of Allah SWT, it is shodaqoh for him.
The Prophet said, "Every good it is charity / shodaqoh." (Narrated by Imam Muslim). Here the charity's obvious not only that of property, but the charity can be a science, skill, strength, power, devotion, and also for someone who is not potential, it is sufficient with a smile when bermuamalah with fellow human beings.
In another hadith, narrated by Bukhori from Abu Musa Al-Asya'ary, explained: "For each shodaqoh Muslims there. The Companions asked: 'If he does not have anything?' Apostle replied: 'He worked with his hands, then bring benefits for himself, then he's been bershodaqoh. "Companions asked:' If he is not able or not doing? 'The Prophet said:' Let ditolongnya demand people who need help. "Companions asked: 'If you did not do?" The Prophet said:' He had done good or mar'uf. 'Ask another friend:' If not done? 'He refrained from evil. That is shodaqoh him. "
In this case, Islam is not only invites the Muslims to give alms, and did not solely explain the benefits or rewards, a double, but also warned not to waste the call. Do not wait until there comes a time where there is no chance to spend their wealth (in charity), for the coming period of hardship.
Thus, once again do not delay good for charity. Because people who do charity it, so many virtues. God says in the Qur'an that charity virtues, among them: charity care virtues (Surah Ali Imran: 92); charity invites love of God (Surah Ali Imran: 133); charity will reciprocate (Surat al-Baqara: 274); charity double fortune (Surat al-Baqara: 261); alms to bring forgiveness of Allah (Surah Ath Thagabun: 17); charity enlarges life (Surah Ad Dahr: 8-11). And Allaah knows best .***
Arda Dinata Inspiration is the founder of the Qur'an and the Assembly Natural Reality (MIQRA) Indonesia, http://www.miqra.blogspot.com.
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problem, actually is a fairness in life. Here, the point of the problem lies in our attitude in dealing with each problem. 
In the hadith narrated by Muslim from Abu Harairah mentioned ra that the Prophet said, "There was this guy was in an arid area, then he heard a voice in the clouds, 'So and so Siramilah the garden." Cloud came and rain water in the shower where the water (dam). Only one trench that can accommodate all of the water, then water was flowing into a field. 
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