Stepping on the Way of Happiness

Stepping on the Way of Happiness
By: ARDA DINATA
http://www.miqra.blogspot.com

CAN we expect certain every happiness in her life. So deserve when Shaykh Syarbashi once said, "All people who live in this world vying to find happiness and want to be able to reach even with high prices."

Happiness was, was in the eyes of fools and liars are regarded as a lafaz and berhakikat not an illusion that there is no real mirage. This really is something that contradiction with the fact that Allah has created everything in this world filled with kindness, pleasure and blessing. Moreover God has sent down the Qur'an as a guide of human life in order titak difficult (read: QS. Thaha: 2).

The fact that the model of thinking, the real cause of early failure to reach a happy life. For that, very precisely when each of us to do the contemplation of his life that we have done so far. because, without doing "assessment" of his own attitude to life, so do not expect "smoothness" of happiness that we all share.

Related to that, a Muslim doctor, Thabit Qurrah, giving attention through fatwas and tipsnya that can deliver one to happiness. He said, "Convenience is the body with little to eat; comfort the soul is a little sin; comfort is with a little heart desires, and oral comfort is a little talk."

Thus, that makes a person can tread the path of happiness, the key is in the behavior and attitude of his own life. Namely in the form of how we treat the body of beliefs, soul, heart, and had spoken correctly. And here, the key word there is the attitude of "little" to eat, sin, desire, and talking.

First, happiness remains a bit to eat. This remains as an engine and its fuel is food. That is, we should use that fuel is natural, because if excessive it could be more dangerous than the flames. So also with the body, if not curbed the desire lust, he would be dangerous to others and eliminate kemunisaannya image. Amazingly, he could be more savage than the animals that tend to make mischief and damage.

Second, the happiness of the soul with a little sin. This is understandable, because people tend to be ordered to do bad (ammara bissu), then if she was free from his bonds he would run away to join the devil. And consequently, he would collude, corruption, cheating, and doing that arbitrary limits melapaui. Therefore, the most severe enemy of man is his own desires. Menturutkan for anyone who desires, he will get hurt. Al-Busyiri said in a poem, "The soul is like a small child. If you spoil him, until he had grown up will continue to nurse his mother. However, if you are weaning so he will stop feeding. "So, stay away from lust, and be careful not to memperturutkannya.

Third, happiness with a little heart desires. His step is to minimize the sense of grief, fear, and feeling restless. This is based on because in the real restless heart will open the doors of weakness and lack menentuan. And this condition makes the heart faced with two choices entrance, namely: the door or door blessing unrest. However, only with a strong instinct of capital and courageous he will be able to maintain the best. Islam itself, in this case has taught its followers how to choose happiness and peace of mind that, as mentioned in the Qur'an. Ar-Ra'd: 28, Those who believe, and their hearts to feel reassured by remembering Allah. Remember, only the remembrance of Allah do hearts become peaceful.

Fourth, oral happiness with a little talk. Alasanya, the more often a person speaks (which is not useful), the greater the chances the person will slip. Who used oral sayings uttered inappropriate will harm others. In this case, Ibn Abbas had said, "Say your words carefully, surely you would be lucky. Keep your words are dirty, ye shall be saved. If not, surely you will regret it later. "

Finally, make sure to face this life, our bodies up from the food exaggeration, soul avoid sin, the heart awake from uncontrollable desire, and oral waking up from a dirty word. When this has been done, then we actually have climbed and the straight path again into the people happy. And Allaah knows best .***

Arda Dinata Inspiration is the founder of the Qur'an and the Assembly Natural Reality (MIQRA) Indonesia, http://www.miqra.blogspot.com.