Being cramped Latitude

Being cramped Latitude
By: ARDA DINATA
http://ardaiq.blogspot.com  

"He who is always beristighfar, then God will make a fun complaints, the narrowness of the scope." (Narrated by Ahmad and Abu Daud).

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On August 14, 2007, 21:48 hours, I received a short message (SMS) from someone who had never met face. However, the new SMS I know and read after the morning prayers. The contents of SMS are:

"I Hamzah, I want to ask Pak.Apa we should do when faced with difficult problems, but we are hesitant and afraid to face it because it was not able to solve the problem?"

That the contents of SMS was more or less. At first, I immediately want to respond via SMS again, but I think the answer is not going to rich maximum, let alone have to massage-massage through HP's rich characters for a long time and need some SMS. So, I decided to make a suggestion to the question by this paper. Hopefully you can Hamzah pleasing and friends who like to read my blog at: MIQRA INDONESIA, also can take advantage. Amen ....

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EVERY man, I sure can not be separated from problems in his life. So today was a longer felt by brother Hamza. The question is, what we do even when faced with the problem (weight) in this life?

In glasses Hasan al-Basri, the problem is mapped into three major groups, namely: environmental issues, problems or needs facilities, and the problem of a life partner.

These environmental problems, can concerns about the drought problem, the difficulty of clean water, flood, natural disasters, and others. The problems concerning living facilities or needs that are usually associated with earning difficulties and poverty issues in everyday life. Meanwhile, a friend comes to life, nothing else is about the problem and romance in an effort to obtain a lawful spouse and we need in the community.

Therefore, in this life we should not fear and hesitation in dealing with a problem. And vice versa, we should not meyepelekan a problem that we face, the slightest problem. In any case, be a proportional and wise.

Here, the key we must try to think as a whole and open. That is, the real problem arose surface, must be consciously or unconsciously no provocation. There musababnya because there was no response action. And from this awareness, so we must find a way out (the answer) and solve the problem. Instead of vice versa, we give up so easily without any significant effort. Remember the promise of God, inna ma'al 'usri Yusran, real difficulties behind it is convenience.

Tip Facing Problems

If we're honest, the real problem or distress was flanked by the two facilities as a solution. And here, the key depends on our attitude in facing these problems. Is not God that imposes a problem on his people, it was in accordance with the relevant people skills?

Here are some tips that can be done in the face of a problem in human life, namely:

1. Mapping Problems

The first step you can do to get out of a problem is to do a mapping of all the problems we face. By mapping the problem, then we can know: the problems what we're dealing with, the degree of light-weight of the problem, whether it is personal problems or generally felt by the people, and others?

With terpetakannya problems we face, certainly a lot of psychological problems has reduced the burden itself. Because, sometimes they arise from a previous issue unresolved. For that, immediately do the mapping problem you face in life.

2. Looking for Alternative Dispute Issues

I have faith, if any problem exists a solution path. Here, the key depends on a matter of time. The more persistent we are trying to get out of it, the faster the problem that we solve life. For that, after we are able to compile a map a problem we face, and then we try to quickly develop alternatives to what could be a way out of solving the problem.

Moreover, in the current era globalisasai, so many tools and references that can be inspired and put in preparing an alternative as a way out of problems we face. The key there is to want not we try to find the sources of these solutions. Moreover, in this life we are only required to always try, and the end result we leave the decision of Allah SWT.

The more we find alternatives for problem solving, then we will be more optimistic to get out of the problem and the obvious, the less it loads (mind) of the problems of our problem. Is not the number of alternatives that we can try from several alternatives (which we have collated), ranging from mild to the most difficult.

3. Try and patient

The third step is a step realization of the previous steps. This is the real steps that must be done by you who want to get out of a problem. Way, you try to try to implement alternatives to solving problems that have been prepared previously seriously. Because, through the earnest efforts that a change will come. Still, if you want out of a problem, then the maximum and try really to get out of the problems faced by them.

When we try to really solve problems we face, then our next task is to pray to the owner a way out of it, that is God Almighty, to be given a way out immediately. For that, after trying so hard and smart to get out of trouble, then we must be patient to accept the results. Because God is with those who patiently persevere.

4. Do Istighfar

The next step, which should not be forgotten when we are facing a problem in life is to seek forgiveness. That is to say "Astaghfirullah". This is the good deeds done after we conduct reprehensible deeds.

Beristighfar was necessary and should be, not because we often do make mistakes. However, because seek forgiveness itself has had a lot of glory and its own virtues, the goods could not get time to become familiar with them but always beristighfar.

Anyway, seek forgiveness, it always gives a way out of a problem. Islam never let one hole problem in humans (especially that related to the character issues that humanity has many shortcomings), and then let the gaping hole with no effort to close it.

Finally, beristigfahlah every moment, because he raised a disaster, eliminating distress, and facilitate the provision. Therefore, if we want to narrow (read: problems) to privacy, then beristighfarlah. "He who is always beristighfar, then God will make a fun complaints, the narrowness of the scope." (Narrated by Ahmad and Abu Daud ).***

Arda Dinata Inspiration is the founder of the Qur'an and the Assembly Natural Reality (MIQRA) Indonesia, http://www.miqra.blogspot.com.

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Special for Readers MIQRA Hamzah and Indonesia, this explanation may be satisfying and good way for anyone to practice. Amen ... ..