Sunday, 17 January 2010

Life is a mirror 'Decision We'

100 Ways To Motivate Yourself: Change Your Life ForeverLife is a mirror 'Decision We'
By: ARDA DINATA

http://www.miqra.blogspot.com

Human life is a mirror of the decisions have been made. Occurrence of floods, landslides, and other social phenomena that occurred in several cities, a few examples of the fruits that the decision we have taken previously. This principle, should we truly realize and understand in every step we live in the world. If not, then get ready for the misery and loss over us.

For that, smart-pandailah us in taking any decision in life. The reason is, every behavior actualized in our daily life, will not run anywhere. He will belongs to us. That we straighten out the importance of intentions and efforts in improving life in accordance with his.

At this level, each individual must be able to plan things can improve in every decision a decision.

Evidence of the need for the demands in the planning of this life, as mentioned in the Qur'an al-Hashr letter (59) verse 18, namely: "O ye who believe, fear Allah and let every soul consider what he had done for the next day (hereafter ), and fear Allah, for Allah is Knower of all hearts. "

Mean verse, more or less if a person is not trained to make a plan --- as taking keeputusan capital-in this life, then it can certainly come a variety of our losses. So, how art decisions and what things are worth noting about it?

Decision

Maturity someone does not just show up. But, he appears as a long process and 'tiring'. Maturity, in each person varies depending on the ability of each individual to optimize the potential of maturity that has given him. This means every human being is basically going to reach maturity according to His will. Similarly, adults in making decisions.

In each decision, there is always crucial moments, where we must choose. Whether the decision was taken quickly but can cause losses. Or conversely, too long to take decisions that have missed an opportunity. One thing we often do not realize is that when decisions must be made, because sometimes as important or perhaps, even more important than what they decide.

The ability to take decisions carefully, fair and wise is not created just like that. But it must start from things that are small, in order to become a positive habit. And this is one that distinguishes a person is an adult or not. So, what would need to be considered while taking a decision? The answer, at least there are five things to note.

First, beware of the wrong analysis. Some of us are capable of taking great decisions quickly, because the use of time available as possible to collect more detailed information, consider more alternatives, and exchange opinions with colleagues. They are also trying to not fall in the data, so it can see the reality in taking the right decision. One thing they do not do is to reach unanimous agreement.

In others, slow decision-makers spend more time, only to arrive at similar conclusions. They struggled to master all the data and reach consensus. Once agreement is reached, it is often irrelevant. This analysis is wrong.

Second, learn all the alternatives. Attitudes and behavior that are too extreme is not good in making a decision. Behave and act wisely by studying the first alternative that we will decide, to avoid regrets in the future. Certainly no one, if asked to others who think we have a lot of information about it. What is clear, first make sure we read, explore and learn first those alternatives before making important decisions.

Third, make a decision as soon as possible. Decide on something immediately in accordance with our abilities, as if waiting means have missed an important opportunity or choice. Broaden the thinking and our perspective, so it can make decisions faster by considering various alternatives.

Fourth, take the decision wholeheartedly. Do not take any decision if we are not sure what to do. However, we sometimes need to also take risks when making a decision. With conditions, the decision was taken at the right time and carried out with a vengeance.

Fifth, make a decision at the right time. Timing is one important factor in decision making. If more and more that would oppose a decision, the more important are the choice of time in taking the decision. Remember that half of the battle can be won, if we know when the time to attack.

Finally, taking into account and properly trained in taking any decision of Practice of the world's life, then we will be spared from the loss and suffering. Waallahu'alam .***

Arda Dinata Inspiration is the founder of the Qur'an and the Assembly Natural Reality (MIQRA) Indonesia, http://www.miqra.blogspot.com.

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